It was such an irony if you know the real me and now you see my blog name, I name it early is never too late. Because the truth is, I’m rather a rubber clock. I had a very bad time management; the only thing that I was rarely late was giving my assignment. But one thing I learn from the movie Benjamin button was. It was never too late to do what you suppose to do. To finish or pursue what you want. I guess for something that have age requirement, It is not completely true. Everyone wish everything is perfect. You could be the best of everything since young. We didn’t have to feel the humiliation and sadness of failure. And felt that the only way was to give up, because we are too late. Some of the word “late” was a mind set of ending pain of losing. Nobody enjoy the feeling of being a loser. The lesson that you can learn in 3D animated movie called Megamind , the highest quality of success for the non genius and perfect superman born to be, was a quality to never give up, even when we know we might lose.
Accepting failure is painful. We sip it like drinking a poisonous drink with a torturous taste. But we have to get through it in a positive way. I would say that when you are getting good at accepting failure at some point you are successful. Remember there are two ways of seeing failure, through your eyes and through other. You can’t always please everybody in this world, so mind about them later on. Feeling failure in your point of view means that you expected more of yourself. That’s a positive thing that means you have motivation. Creature will not take any action without a motivation. It’s a psychology basic of lots of most creature. Motivation is a way to get to where and what you want.
But getting caught in your own despair is not a way to get to where you want to be. Getting mad and stress with all the angriness toward yourself will back fire to you. You will lose so many energies just to calm yourself. Love yourself because there is no point of being mean to you. Those negative energy and time that you spent complaining to yourself is utterly useless, unhealthy, and counterproductive. There is no point going anywhere without enjoying the ride. Remind yourself, that the journey of life however hard you work on something will end to death. So you might have to see back and treasure your accomplishment once in a while to give you positive energy to drive you even further to accomplish something.
The past was a reference, today was reality and tomorrow is a mission. Let’s keep it fun!
